Was on phone with Banana for a girl's talk , just now .
" Most of the time , we lie to meet our objective . Not because we want to , but we're force-d to " , she said .
Make million of sense , yes ? Look deep into this sentence ..
When we're kids , we lie to our parents , cause we know if we dont , we cant get what we want . And now , as we grow , we lie to you , him and her .. cause as usual , if we dont , we cant get what we want . As most of the time , we've already fore-see what will the answer be , if we dont lie , so this makes no point for us saying out the truth .
Simple example : Your love-mate's going party without you . And knowing that if he/she tells you , theyre going party with his/her group of friends , with no hesitation redlight will be flash . So .. theyve got no choice , but to l i e .
Is this his/her fault ? I would pretty much say NO . Cause why bother saying out the truth whereby , youre actually slapping yourself with your own hands ?
I wont agree that this is a form of white lie , but I would categorised it under ' harmless-lie ' .
All human being hates to be deceived . So point is , we should all learn to take things easy and see things in a different way , different as in more towards the positive side .
Cause so long as , we tell ourselves to accept it no matter what , lying will be the last thing the other party will take into consult .
" if I could , I would "
